I will never forget but….

I forgive you for never listening to me – why?

Because I was not loud enough

I wanted to be, but did not dare to.

I forgive you for trying to control my life – why?

Because I let you

I wanted to run but did not know where to.

I forgive you for drinking too much – why?

Because I know you were sick

I wanted to save you but it was not my task.

I forgive you for throwing stuff around – why?

Because it was a part of you

I wanted that part to drop to the ocean.

I forgive you for neglecting me – why?

Because I stayed

I wanted to be the one changing you.

I forgive you for being a monster at times – why?

Because you had a rough upbringing

I wanted to show you how beautiful you truly were.

I forgive you for never being home when needed the most – why?

Because you did not care enough

I wanted you to care for us.

I forgive you for not spending time with your son – why?

Because he needed me

I wanted you to stay away.

I forgive you for demanding your son all of the sudden – why?

Because I have to

I wanted you to give him back.

I forgive you for all your lies at the meetings – why?

Because I know the truth

I wanted others to see right through you.

I forgive you for being weak – why?

Because I am stronger

I want you to admit.

This is ME forgiving YOU!

This is ME forgiving the PAST

This is ME moving FORWARD 

But I can never forgive you on other’s behalf, that is up to you to get that forgiveness.

Have you even forgiven yourself? 

It took me a long time, but I have forgiven myself for letting you do this

Is the guilt eating you up?

I do not feel guilty for wanting to be with you

I feel guilty for trying too hard

I feel guilty for ruining myself for you

BUT I forgive myself

What do you see in the mirror?

Finally, I do not see you anymore in my mirror

I forgive you but I can never forget

Your eyes are still the same

I forgive you for admitting that he is better off without you


I cannot forgive that yet but I wish you would let me forgive you for it

Maybe some day, you will let us be…..

About majasf

Single mom
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5 Responses to I will never forget but….

  1. A stunning piece of work, and so brave and wonderful on your part to be the bigger and more courageous soul. You should always be so proud of yourself.

    • majasf says:

      Thank you so much, Cameron, for those kind words!
      You are one amazing support even though we live kind of far apart 🙂
      Thank you for being such a good friend!

  2. Paige Thomas says:

    You have such a strong, compassionate spirit, Maja. I’m so proud of the decisions you’ve made. Tobias is a lucky little man to have a truly beautiful mother by his side.

  3. majasf says:

    Aww, thank you so much, Paige!
    Your words means a lot to me and thank you so much for following my blog as well 🙂
    You are amazing!

  4. Patricia says:

    Owww sweety,

    It is so familiar to me! This is just what I needed today, these exact words describe the feelings I’ve had to day.

    Thanx for sharing!
    Lots of love Patricia

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